The problem with many relationships is people stop being intrigued by who the other is. We become complacent in our relationships and stop our curiosity towards who they are and who they are becoming. It is only possible to inquire of someone else, what you have learned to inquire about yourself. Thus, the deeper you go on your interior journey, the deeper you will be allowed to search and seek for another. Do the hard, humbling, and honest work of self-reflection.