Marriage

ReThink: Soul-Mates

ReThink: Soul-Mates

If you’re anything like me, you probably spent a lot of time as a young person asking this question, wondering when and where you’d meet “the one”. Growing up in the church and our relationally romanticized pop-culture, my entire life system guided me in the belief that if I was faithful and patient, God would one day bless me with someone He made special just for me.  This woman would possess every trait that I have ever prayed for. She would be a perfect match for me, understand me better than anyone, and of course fulfill my sexual desires. This person would be my other half, my “soul-mate” that God destined me to be with from the beginning.

Food & Sex: A Different Way to Think About Sex & Marriage

Food & Sex: A Different Way to Think About Sex & Marriage

As a young man, I was often posed these kinds of hypothetical types of scenarios surrounding a lot of things, superpowers, women and marriage… and sex. As young man, especially because I was raised in the church, I was often led to believe that marriage becomes a no limits, free-for-all of sexual enjoyment and pleasure.